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I'm going to Nottingham tomorrow. I'm looking forward to it. But at the moment I have to plan and pack and keep an eye on my finances in case the hotel bill wipes me out. Also my mum is coming, which is lovely. She just randomly, after I booked it, suggested that she could come up on the Saturday with my ON, and stay for the one night in the same hotel. But she then immediately tried to get me to talk to her about tickets and what the cheapest possible tickets could be, and maybe what time we were planning to come back on Sunday, and planning exactly when we were coming back is not what this weekend was ever supposed to be about. Also it's supposed to be going to heat up again, and I'm questioning the sanity of going to an open-air festival for multiple hours of the day. But I'm looking forward to it. I love the festival and I love the bands and I love Nottingham. I'm excited to go back. I've been looking at google maps all weekend, remembering where everything is and looking at what's still there and what isn't. There are more escape rooms in Nottingham than there used to be, is mostly what I've noticed. But I think there are more escape rooms everywhere than there used to be.

Next Friday, my parents are going away to Benidorm with my three nephews, and despite the fact that I thought I made it clear I can't really look after the house and the dog when they go away, while I'm working, they are planning to leave the dog with me. The last time they went away, we had the dog go stay with my sister, again. Since he is her dog. This time my MN has apparently said my sister is planning to go to a caravan with her new boyfriend while her kids are on holiday - ????!!!?? - and my mum hasn't even asked her if that's true, or if she can have the dog. She just keeps talking about how the neighbour has said the dog can stay in her back garden all day, till I get home from work, and that she's trying to get him on trays of food instead of the big cans. My dad doesn't say anything, just sort of curls his lip. He obviously just thinks I should do it, because he's not that bothered about how hard I find it. I will not be able to sleep if I'm worrying about whether or not the dog is going to wee or poo in the kitchen overnight, which he sometimes does for no apparent reason. If I can't sleep work and living is going to be hell. I already have to clean out the cat's bowl more often than usual because it's constantly full of fly eggs, because my dad won't close the garage door, because he wants it to be cool in there when he goes in there to vape, I guess. Give me a break.

After the conversation I had with my boss last week about the dude saying one of our female bosses was getting 'brave', I was then sat in the office when the post room guy no-one likes started talking about how he'd won a couple of free drinks and was going to have them at Leeds Pride. He's not gay, he talks about women and his girlfriends all the time, and my boss has described him as 'an abuser and predator of women'. Which is nice. Anyway, the others in the office started teasing him about which he was out of LGBT, and he said he 'wasn't gay, he was normal'. He was going with his girlfriend, who also wasn't gay, but normal. And 'the last thing he'd ever want to be is gay'. So I went to talk to my boss again, because there have been complaints - from our CEO - about how much this guy talks, basically just to tell my boss what had happened, and ask if there was any chance this man might be encouraged to stop talking soon. Also I told him I was bisexual, just to get my situation across, and because literally why wouldn't I tell him if it came up. And he started talking about how he was fine with gay people, but he didn't like people who pushed their sexuality in your face, and how he was accosted once in a gay bar when he was younger, and probably this guy (who everyone hates) was just naive and chose his words wrongly, I wouldn't understand because I have an English degree, he probably only meant that he wouldn't want to be anything other than straight, the same way I wouldn't want to be anything other than bisexual. He is generally a nice person, and sometimes he was nice in this conversation, and I think I caught him off-guard a bit, but oh my god. And he told me he wasn't planning to treat me any differently now he knew I was bisexual, I shouldn't worry about that, and he told me that a few times, and I said "you shouldn't", and I meant that he morally shouldn't, but also that obviously I could take him to a tribunal if he did. Also he told me a story about how he'd once worked with a lad who was a genius, but nobody knew because he was working on a building site just to make some money until he got made partner at a law firm, and that he'd learned because of that not to judge anybody when you don't know them, and then gave me significant looks.

I decided overnight that it wasn't fair of me to bring the subject up, because it's really not his responsibility what people - who technically don't even work in the same company as us - say in the office, and he has been busy lately, and his mum's recently died. I was going to tell him the next day, but before I got a chance he said he wanted to speak to me. We went back into a private meeting room, and he said I'd caught him on the back foot the day before, obviously what the guy said was wrong, and no-one liked him. It was just because Pride was coming up, and people were going to talk about it, and then started talking about whether we needed Pride anymore, as a society. He obviously thought we didn't. And once again, told me he didn't view me any differently because I was bisexual, he wasn't going to treat me any differently. As far as he was concerned, I was a normal person, he was a normal person, the man in the postroom was not a normal person because he was kind of stupid and a twat. Also I learned that when he'd said the man was a 'predator and abuser of women', he just meant he stalked people/women on Facebook, and would probably stalk me if he got the chance. Mmhm. I said I didn't want to discuss gay rights with him, but it was fine, and if things got any worse I'd decide if I wanted him to have a word with the guy's manager or anything.

Yesterday, my boss asked to have a word with me again as soon as I got in. Apparently this guy had been saying something similar again about Pride, about how he went but he wasn't gay - he 'wasn't like them' - and my boss could tell that it was just naivety and stupidity, but it was something that would have pissed me off. So he took this guy aside and said that someone - and it could have been literally anyone, just someone who walked in from upstairs - had said something about how this guy was talking about gay people, and his 'vile manner'. My boss said he massively exagerrated what I'd said so this guy wouldn't be able to guess it had come from me. So yes. And he said the guy might do some digging - he probably would do some digging - trying to find out who'd made this comment, but nothing that had been said should trace it back to me. My boss just wanted me to know that it had happened and what he'd said. He also reiterated that he didn't see me any differently now he knew I was bisexual, and didn't think he'd been treating me any differently. And I said 'tribunal tribunal tribunal' in my head and said it was fine, he'd been fine. Which he had been, when we weren't in that meeting room having conversations.

So that happened at work. Pride is this weekend.

I had my hair cut on Monday, on the day off I finally managed to have, and now my hair is short and things are wonderful.
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Hello. I did actually come back from the Nottingham Riverside Festival. Do you want to hear about my TMI adventures? YOU KNOW YOU DO. My TMI adventures )

Since then I have mostly been freaking out over or working on my ESA assessment questionnaire, which the DWP or ATOS or whoever needs back by next Tuesday. But I discussed it with my counsellor, and then discussed it and did most of it yesterday during/after an appointment with my employment coach. Well, I did all of it really, because I thought I had a bit of extra space at the end to finish an answer, but that turned out to be a space for a completely different question, so I sort of had to stop short. I'm worrying that I wasted my space with stuff that was less relevant than the stuff I didn't get to put in, but I read back over my questionnaire and I'd put some of that stuff in answers to other questions. And I only had so much space. And if they want me to go into more detail, they call me for another assessment, I'm sure. Even though I massively hope that doesn't happen. But anyway, I put down everything I could think of that was most relevant, and that's all I can do really. So I signed it and posted it off this morning, and at least it's done now.

And now tomorrow, my parents are going away with my two oldest nephews. So I'll be in the house on my own/looking after the house on my own. Usually I massively enjoy that though. It literally just occured to me that my sister might decide that it would be a great opportunity to come visit me though, since she lives just up the hill now. I sincerely hope that doesn't happen. Although she'd probably bring the baby. I can just talk to the baby if she comes over. Maybe.
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Hello. I went to the Riverside Festival. It was wicked, as it is most years. I spent too much, but I did buy CDs for the first time ever, and I saw [livejournal.com profile] katemonkey in the crowd, which was lovely.

BUT. Mostly what happened was that the soaps were mostly amazing on Friday, and I was nowhere near a computer. However, I did take helpful notes. Here they are, lovingly recreated for you:

Spoilers for Friday's Emmerdale and Coronation Street episodes )

In other news, that's pretty much it. The Riverside Festival was lovely and sunny and rainy, but hardly ever rainy for very long. For some reason this year they didn't put descriptions of each band in the programme, so it was hard to tell what you were going to see, but I did manage to find quite a lot of really good bands anyway. At one point I was at a gig, and it started raining a bit, but a lot of us stuck it out, and eventually we ended up dancing in front of a massive, really vibrant double rainbow. Which looked to me to be turning into a triple rainbow slightly at some points. But anyway. It was really good. Also I found a stall selling really nice necklaces and I spent too much on jewellery in a new and unexpected way. But I don't regret it, and it was really really nice. Also, I didn't stay for the fireworks on Saturday night, because I didn't want to get back too late, given that I was in town on my own. But I got the bus back, got back to my hotel, settled down in my room, and then started hearing some bangs. I looked behind the curtains, and I could see some of the fireworks from my hotel room. Irritatingly, the Hotel Britannia was directly between me and them, but the Travellodge (I think) was across the road from it, and I could see the reflections from a lot of them in its windows. And some of them came over the top of the Hotel Britannia anyway. Which was quite lovely :)

Soaps are amazing. And so are festivals.
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A nice thing, I suppose, about Livejournal being down for everyone all at once is that at least when it comes back it doesn't take forever to catch up on your flist. Not that I'm condoning this kind of behaviour. Bad form, LJ.

Anyway. The post I was going to make on Monday was about how I had two goals for myself to achieve that day, and I did both of them! Hurray for me. One was to photocopy my sick note and letter and get it sent off to the DWP, and the other was to go into Santander, hopefully figure out my ISA details and transfer some money to my normal account so I could pay my mum back for the Slightly Expensive Necklace she got for me in Prague. Accomplishment. It's awesome.

Other things that have happened or been happening in the last few days:

  • Eastenders got SUDDENLY GAY again. It's kind of a shame, because Eastenders is still rubbish - the men who acted nice but seemed like they might later become sinister are now indeed acting sinisterly. And the men who don't like those guys seem to be awful as well. BUT. There's a character in it called Michael, who came in a while ago. At first I'm found him annoying, then his dad came into the show and it turned out Michael thought his dad had killed his mum and hated him, and it seemed like he might get interesting. Then he decided he liked his friend's wife, tried it on with her, and when she turned him down he tried to ruin her life, and I hated him again. However, when his dad came in, he came in with a brother of Michael's, and then this Monday another brother turned up. And unless I am very much mistaken, the minute Michael saw this brother he stood up straighter and was looking over. And the minute the brother saw Michael he started giving him lingering, yearning looks. Then he came over and started talking about some conversation he and Michael and their dad had had two years before, which Michael didn't remember, but which was obviously quite important to his brother. It was about goal-line technology. I decided to look online to see if we'd been given any more information on this new brother (Anthony), and on the first page of results was an article about how "Anthony had been corrupted by Michael at a young age". And went on to say that Anthony was probably the quietest of the three brothers, and would probably be focusing on the business for a bit and wouldn't be interested in girls for a while. And if anyone doesn't believe me about this, it's here. It's quite special.

    So I might be giving Eastenders another go, for a little bit.


  • I quite like Sugartown, which started on Sunday.


  • I love George Gently, which was also on on Sunday.


  • I went to a corn maze with my nephew and mum. The corn was only about waist-high, but you had to get to workstations in it to complete a worksheet/quiz thing, and in some ways that made it more infuriating, because you could SEE them, but you couldn't GET to them. It was fun though. Later I got stalked by a duck and nearly bitten by a horse, and it turned out I'd managed to get soil all up my legs inside my jeans, but we did have quite a good time.


  • I have been watching 666theheartless666 long play videos, after someone referenced him on fandom secrets. Partly because he did Fatal Frame, one of which I looked on long long before I got any kind of game console. It was both hilarious (his commentary) and terrifying (the actual game). He's worth a look if you like that kind of thing though, he's quite funny.


  • Today on Hollyoaks Seth and Brendan had a scene together! None of you will probably know what that means! Essentially, Seth and Brendan are two characters I really like, who don't have much of a reason to have scenes together very often. But today they did. Although it wasn't so much a scene as Brendan whizzing by at the end of Seth's scene to steal his ice-cream and say "You snooze, you lose, kid!". But still. Contact!


  • And I booked my hotel for the Riverside Festival in Nottingham. K got back to me and said she couldn't decide whether she was going or not until after she got back from Berlin and knew how broke/tired she'd be, so she might be there, she might not. But I am definitely going. Woo!

I think that's everything. YOU ARE ALL CAUGHT UP. And if you aren't, I will probably mention it in another post. OH.

  • On Sunday night, while I was up on the internet not going to bed despite having stuff to do the next day, I came up with the idea for a Silent Hill Texts From Last Night tumblr. I still can't tell if this was sleep-deprived genius, or sleep-deprived craziness. Also, I'm weirdly into Silent Hill fandom considering that I've never actually played the games. I may yet one day though.

It think that's everything. And now I sincerely hope that this posts, although there seems to be some chance that it won't.
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So. I've had a busy week. Sort of. On Tuesday I went to Nottingham )

And on Thursday I went to Wakefield and Leeds )

Anyway. Then today my mum came back from her holiday with my sister and my two nephews. I was invited on this holiday, but I said no in the end, because I remembered what happened last time we went on holiday to Filey with my sister and my two nephews in April, and I didn't feel like I'd be up to doing it at the moment. She got back tonight at about half past seven, and she looked shell-shocked, and I asked her how it had been, and she said "Put it this way, this morning I bit a hole in a football." Which I think says it all. She's glad to be home, I think.
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I did go down to Nottingham in the end, last weekend. It was lovely. I went down on Friday so I could basically go to some of the shops I don't have nearby anymore. I really wanted to go see Alys Power, but I ended up only giving her about two days notice before I came and it turned out she was on holiday last week anyway. But I managed to get to the Focus Gallery, which was lovely, and had some new artists in I'd not seen before who were kind of amazing. And I ended up buying one of their Alys Power pieces as well, so it all kind of worked out. I went a bit overdrawn, of course. But even that didn't turn out too awful, I think.

I managed to get a single room in a hotel quite close to where I used to live, for just £35 for one night, which given that when I was looking at Bed and Breakfasts in Cornwall the other year they were charging £25 per night I think that was pretty good. And it was all perfectly lovely. It was just me on the Friday, and then on Saturday my mum came up and we checked into the Britannia for another night. And I don't know what it was, my mum thinks it's because we checked in early and got one of the better rooms available, I think it might be because my mum booked a room there before and they noticed and decided to be nice to her - but we had, like, an amazing room. It was a double because there were no twins available, and I'm only really comparing it to the room we had there before, but it was massive, we had tons of space, it had a sofa, and sliding panels instead of curtains. And the windows didn't have mould this time! We were very impressed. We were kind of tempted to stay there for a bit, but didn't in the end, and got down to the Riverside Festival in the end. I love the Riverside Festival. It's so lovely, and such a lovely setting, and they really do get bands in from all over the world, and most of them are really great, and not like the music you normally hear most of the time. The only real problem with it is that you can't see everything at once - I had to choose between Latin American reggae and French swing, jazz and Eastern European gypsy folk. I HAD TO MAKE THAT CHOICE. Mostly I compromised by going to one for a little while, then on to my favourite option for slightly longer. But it was still lovely. And the weather was brilliant this year. I always wish I could buy CDs that the bands are usually selling, but this year I was pretty strapped for cash, and the bands I really liked were selling their CDs at £10 each, which I could not afford. But it was still great. My mum was pretty easy and basically came with me to whatever I wanted to see, and she seemed to like it well enough, I think. And because she was there and I had someone to get back with, I got to stay and watch the firework display they always have at 10.30pm on the Saturday. Which was a lot more crowded than I was imagining it would be. But was still good to see, and was actually really really good.

The next day mum had to work in the afternoon, so my dad came down and picked her up, which was good for me actually because I got to send my overnight stuff back with them rather than taking it to the festival with me. The second day was as good as the first, and included a really quite brilliant, quite lovely acrobatic troupe from Tanzania. Including limbo-ing under flaming sticks. I'll say no more. Again, I didn't get to see everything I really wanted to, but I saw more than enough, and really really enjoyed it. Then at about quarter to 6 I headed back to the train station to get the four trains I needed to get to get back to my hometown. And it wasn't even that dark when I got back. And I had had a great time, hurrah!

I'm vaguely planning to go back to Nottingham again in the next few months, if I can afford it. And pretty definitely planning to go back in December, because you remember how last year I was freaking out talking about the pantomime Gray O'Brien (aka Tony from Coronation Street) was doing a pantomime in Manchester and I really wanted to go see it, but couldn't really afford it? Guess where he's doing pantomime this year. The year after I moved away from there. Damn him. Except not really, because he is, in fact, doing pantomime again, yay.

Also, while I was in Nottingham on Friday night on my own, I passed some of the time going to see Knight and Day, the new film with Tom Cruise and Cameron Diaz. Thoughts ) And there was surprise Paul Dano! Which I always am in favour of! Yay!

Basically because of that, I am now on a big There Will Be Blood kick. Also partly because my mum and I found There Will Be Blood on TV the next night, even though we didn't end up watching it, which I am cynically assuming might be something to do with the fact Paul Dano is in a new film at the moment. Although I could be wrong. Anyway. I love Daniel/Eli so much. In all it's terrible, twisted glory. I've largely been contemplating my idea from before for AU where they are in a slightly angrier, more violent version of The Princess Bride. And I've now moved onto to a modern AU where Eli is the teenage unofficial leader/priest of a community centre church and Daniel is a gangster boss who wants the building for it's strategic value in the neighbourhood. Both of which are very good places to be.

Also, I watched the last episode of Sherlock last week. Thoughts on 1.03, The Great Game )

I'm going away again, on Saturday, with my parents and oldest nephew, to Devon on Saturday, so I pretty much won't be around for all of next week. But I'll be back the week after that. So see you guys then, pretty much!
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Last night, I watched Casualty, spoilers for this and future episodes )

And I booked for Connotations this year. Woo hoo!

And tonight I watched BBC Sherlock, episode 2 (spoilers for this and last week's episode )

Also, it's the Nottingham Riverside festival this weekend, and I was half-thinking about going down, staying overnight in a Bed and Breakfast or cheap hotel or something. It only yesterday occured to me that I should probably decide now if I actually want to do that. And indeed, book now, if I do. Hmm.
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  • I made some Coronation Street icons. I forgot that icon-making can be kind of fun, even if kind of frustrating.


  • At the moment on Coronation Street, David Platt's heavily debt-ridden new stepdad has gone missing after telling David's mum he was going to fake his own death so she could collect on the life insurance (the canoe man from last year was mentioned at least once). She didn't want to but he sailed off onto a lake (in the Lake District) in the middle of the night anyway. She called David when her husband (Joe) still hadn't come back the next day, David came up and when she told him what was going on, told her to phone the police. She said no, because Joe would get in trouble, and she had to help him, or at least give him a chance to change his mind. So now David is helping her to lie effectively. It's sort of great. He really does want to help his mum, and it is his main skill. He thought up a whole story for her, and keeps telling her how to act so people will believe it, and occasionally freaking out when she isn't very good and nearly gives the whole thing away. Sadly, what they don't know is that Joe drowned while trying to fake his death, and his body just came up to the surface tonight. So in a while it's going to look slightly suspicious how much they were lying about where he was. Oh well.


  • David's 'enemy' Gary Windass is back from the army tomorrow also, and he's bringing a soldier friend with him. The soap magazines are saying that 'there may be more to their visit than meets the eye', though. It's probably not so they can double-team David. But I can dream.


  • I have to move in a week and a few days. Arrghhh.


  • A man came around to view the flat today with someone from my estate agents'. They had called and left a message about it a few days ago, and I was thinking about calling back and trying to reschedule it, because the flat is still a bit of a mess, but I figured I'd just have to do it another day. So I cunningly decided to tidy up a little bit and when they came around pretend that I hadn't heard anything about a viewing, and claim the flat was a mess because of pack so that they'd either a) leave, or b) not judge me too harshly. They came in, but they didn't seem to mind the mess too much. And it was a good incentive to start tidying up a bit. It was a bit weird to have people in the flat, but they were both pleasant enough. The guy asked a few questions about noise and how hot it was in the summer, and how much of the furniture came with the flat. I tried not to mention too many negative things about the flat, and a bunch of the positive ones. And then they left. So it was strange, but not too painful, in the end.


  • My mum and nephew came down on Friday for the Nottingham Light Night. Friday night and Saturday ).


  • My mum called in the middle of that paragraph and we ended up talking for about 50 minutes, so if there's a change of tone mysteriously that's why.


  • After there not having been much on at the cinema that I wanted to see (apart from the Princess and the Frog, sort of) for a few weeks or so, four films I wanted to watch came out last Friday. Ponyo On The Cliff By The Sea, the new Studio Gibhli one, which I've been waiting for since the tutor of my Japanese Anime course mentioned it coming out a year ago; The Wolfman remake (on the assumption that werewolves + Emily Blunt = good times); My Name Is Khan, because I've seen two films now with Shah Rukh Khan in that I liked, and wanted to give this one a whirl; and Percy Jackson and the Lightning Thief, which is sort of about Greek Mythology and powers and stuff, and looked sort of interesting.

    Vague spoilers, though not really, for Ponyo On The Cliff By The Sea and The Wolfman )

    Sadly, from having stuff to do all week and from what I know about how long my local Cineworld tends to keep showing Bollywood films, I have a feeling I've missed the chance to see My Name Is Khan. Although having said that, given that it was sold out and everything in the week, maybe they'll keep it on for another week. But if not I think that'll be that. So now there's just Percy Jackson and the Lightning Thief, which I'm not as bothered about, but can probably see tomorrow or over the weekend. Yay.


  • I'm really tired, and I have to tidy the flat, properly, tomorrow, and start packing things up so my dad, who's coming down at some point over the weekend, can take them back to Yorkshire. It's one of those situations where I keep on thinking of new things I have to do. I have to call the electric company, and the water company. I have to cancel my internet contract. And my contents insurance. And clean the place. And sort through my bills to decide which can be thrown away now. And argh. I've got a week left. But I'll probably get it all done. I sort of have to, really.


  • The Princess and the Frog fandom continues to be not full of Facilier/Tiana shippers. I don't know why.
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It's been snowing on me today. I like the snow. Sometimes I thinking about making a post about, or talking about, which is my favourite season, but then I realise that I like winter, summer and spring. And the leaves turn all beautiful in autumn. So, so much for that.

I had a Jobseeker's Appointment today, and it's basically the last thing I needed to do before the weekend. Except call a medical clinic to book a time for my interview next week. I have another interview, now. I can't believe they've started offering me interviews just as I decided that I was probably going to have to move back to my parents'. I'm going to go to it, and hopefully I will hear back about it before the end of January, when I have to give notice to my estate agents' about giving up the flat. But if I don't I'll probably give notice anyway, given that I didn't have much luck with the other two interviews I've just had. And hope that if they do offer me a job that I can cancel things with the estate agents. I don't know, my mum seems to think you can.

Moving house stuff )

I have, however, since last week or since I got back received a letter from the Jobcentre saying they couldn't send me a transcript of my original call asking for Jobseeker's Allowance and (I'm pretty sure) housing benefit in September, but that they could confirm that information was sent to the Housing Benefit office from the Jobcentre about me on the day that I called. Which I think is proof. I've taken it down and handed it in today, and it is past the deadline I was given to appeal the decision about when my Housing Benefit was being paid from so I'm not really sure it'll make any difference, but hopefully it might change their minds. And I also got a letter from the council saying that I was owed a refund on my Council Tax of £271. Which was nice. I have to fill in a form and send it back if I want that refund, and I'm not actually sure where it is at the moment, but I'm really intending to do that. Because I WOULD like the refund.

It's a bit weird going around Nottingham knowing that I'm going to be leaving it shortly though. One of the main shops I'm going to miss is Evolution, which is a shop that sells rather lovely sort of ornamental things and scarves and stuff, but which is apparently all fair trade and essentially a charity. They're having a sale at the moment, and I've been buying a few things I've had my eye on, like a mosaic-style mirror and a paperweight with a fairy on it, but it does seem a bit odd to be buying decorative things when I'm going to be moving out soon. Then again, the nearest Evolution shop to me when I move back to Yorkshire will be in Sheffield. So hmph. Annoyingly, there was a guitar-shaped mirror I wanted, and really saved some of my Christmas money to buy it with when I came back to Nottingham, but when I went in it wasn't there, and the man at the till said "Oh yes, there's no stock here, and none at the main warehouse. We're expecting new stock in at the end of March." The end of March is not really good for me. But oh well.

Anyway. I'm still mainly done with useful things for the week. And I'm going to London to see The Snow Queen and hang out with [livejournal.com profile] cakesy, which is nice. And I watched a video on the Emmerdale website that claimed to be a 'teaser' about who kills Mark Wylde tomorrow, but showed exactly who does it and how it is done. So I don't have to wonder about that anymore. So mostly things are quite pleasing at the moment. Hurrah.
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Rubbish. I am it and my flat is covered in it. I thought when I left work on Monday that at least I would have a bit of time to tidy things up. That hasn't happened so far.

However, I have just called the Jobseeker's place to sign on. I was putting it off, because if I get a job before my first appointment as far as I know I don't get paid anything, and it's just a lot of messing about. But I have done it now. They managed to get me an initial checking in appointment thing at some unthinkable hour tomorrow morning. Bastards. Still, at least I actually got paid something last time, so there'll be some money coming in, hopefully. Which is always good.

And I have managed to finish Series 1 of Hana Yori Dango. OH HANA YORI DANGO. I love Makino. I love Tsukasa. I LOVE THE GOLD. I love the "Great I am". I love most of it. I'm planning to continue spending it wisely and watching Mohabbatein. Possibly after tidying up a bit.

On Sunday, Dancing on Ice was on. Roxanne went out, which was sad, but not unexpected at this point in the competition. She got her highest score and was brilliant with her prop which was a chair. She had to skate off against Zoe, who has sort of risen to be one of the favourites for the past few weeks, and whose skating routine got the highest or second highest marks from the judges, and when they asked Jason to say which one he wanted to save afterwards, he said this was a very close skate off, possibly the closest they'd had. He saved Zoe, of course, but I think it was about as close as he could come to saying he LOVED ROXANNE. Roxanne will be on the tour anyway. Which I'm going to see with my mum. Hurrah!

That's my fandom news. The other is that last night on Coronation Street, after Gary got off at the court case because Tina told the truth, Gary's mum said they should invite the Platts, including David, out for a drink to show they had no hard feelings. Gary insisted that he DID have hard feelings. I can't be imagining this.

A fact that I've just learned form the City Council magazine that gets delivered every month or so: St Anns in Nottingham has the oldest and largest allotment site in Britain. I might look into that. Another fact I learned from them: cockroaches can come into your flat or house by being carried in in the hard drive of your laptop. I will never entirely trust this laptop again.
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Note to self: be less rubbish.

Which I'm working on, honest. Lots of things happened this week. I came back from a con. My debit card did need things doing with it so I could use it, it turned out. I went to see a dance thing on Thursday, which was great. I had to do food shopping on Thursday as well, which was less great. I found out I'd been paid by cheque two weeks in a row, and I can only assume I got something from Jobseeker's Allowance this time, because otherwise I don't know why I'd have had money in my account. Things went off all at once, sort of.

Plus there was Coronation Street. And I was thinking, there should be cons in lighthouses. And cons on canalboats. The only thing that stops me thinking that's a grand idea is the fact that you can only fit about six people in a lighthouse or on a canalboat. Unless you had a small fleet of canalboats. You could hold panels in the pubs the con passed on their way. The lighthouse you can't really get round. Unless people were willing to sleep on the beach.

My current favourite idea about Coronation Street is the one where Tony Gordon notices David Platt hanging around being evil and unemployed, and decides he needs a new underhanded PA. David would have to do filing and wear a suit all over the place, and he could silently lord it over Gary that he had a job. Then at some point Tony would find out that David used to be a hairdresser, and would need him on hand AT ALL TIMES, just in case he has an emergency meeting or someone he needs to impress, and has to look his best. Hairdressing is one of my favourite things that David does, and I didn't really actually watch it back then when he was working in a salon, maybe he has no skills but was just very good at sweeping up hair. In my mind he can at least do a trim pretty well. Eventually Tony would probably take Gary on as a new bullyboy/"assistant", but would still want him to look his best, and David would have to cut Gary's hair as well. While fuming. It is an idea I quite love. A lot.

Select-A-Disc is closing down in Nottingham. That's really quite sad, but it does mean they're having a closing down sale. I made a couple of discounted music purchases. It's a shame though. When it closes, Fopp will be the only music/dvd alternative in town to HMV or WH Smith or somewhere. And I do quite like Select-A-Disc. Oh well.

The TV Choice has a little headline on the cover for Casualty this week saying "Jordan's BIG mistake". LETTING GO OF TOBY, is clearly the answer to that one. Maybe this is the week he realises.
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No-one wants to write David/Gary slash for Coronation Street. A quick search on Google has sort of confirmed this. Although given the fact that there's now a court case in the air, and they're playing it as an actual love triangle sort of thing rather than Gary being a twat at David's girlfriend and David being jealous, it's not entirely a surprise. The people on the forums only seem to want to talk about which one is the least attractive and the most horrible. It's quite rub. Probably the show is just building to it, and I should be patient. They can't bring the Ultimate Teenage Criminal Team together straight away. But, dudes. This is the episode where Gary stalked him, with all the rubbish/irrelevant bits taken out. THE GAY IS VERY CLEAR. Probably a fandom will leap into being in the next week or so. Probably.

My secret pairing of Tony/Maria is apparently on the cards though, according to the soap magazine covers. So it's not all bad, I guess.

I’ve been a bit rubbish at LJ in the past week. This was basically my week:

Monday: I got to work and the heating was broken. Apparently if the temperature is 15 degrees Celsius it's illegal conditions. It was 16 degrees all day. They said something about getting some heaters in, but the man meant to be scouting out the place to see where to put them never arrived. Thankfully, they started working very weakly at about 3 or 4 o'clock. The next day it was back on properly and we got to work with our coats off.

Tuesday: Work without having to wear our coats, as I've said. And in the evening I went to the cinema, and had a whole screen all to myself for The Secret of Moonacre. Which I thought, coupled with the adverts, would be related to its quality, but it was actually quite good. It had Dakota Fanning, being a better Dakota Fanning than she was a Lyra Belacqua, in my opinion. It also had Hornblower/Ioan Griffiths in it. And Tim Curry. It wasn't brilliant - although the costumes very often were - but if you want a good, gentle fantasy film, I'd recommend it.

Wednesday: Things probably happened, but I can't remember what they were. I think I had to wash my hair, so not much. Possibly looking up a bunch of videos on Youtube, as I recall.

Thursday: It snowed, starting just before I left the office to go home, as I'm sure it did in many other places. They were doing Light Night taster events, so I saw a light show near the castle as I was coming back. I went to the train station, in snow, to get my train tickets for Redemption, abut was told they would be about the same price on the day, so there was no point booking a time. Then I went and had cake, because I quite like having cake in a cafe/cake shop when it's dark and snowing outside. And I've been in there before, but Lee Rosy's Tea seems to be leading the way in ambiently-lit cake and indie music shops in Nottingham. It was lovely, anyway.

But by this time it was about half past 6, I remembered I'd forgotten to do my little letter to go with my Jobseeker's book explaining that I was now in work and couldn't be bothered standing around on the street doing it, so just went for the bus. I went to the bus stop where the cheap buses go first, and there was one in, but it was out of service. They're usually pretty regular there, but I waited about ten minutes in the cold, and nothing came. The fact that a Light Night woman came around handing out glow sticks because she wanted to go home made it only slightly better. As I was stood three of the more expensive buses I could get went past, so I started walking down to that stop. And then the cheaper bus came. I ran back up, queued, and just as I was pretty much about to get on the driver said the bus was full and no-one else could get on. I walked down to the other bus stop again. I got there about 5 to 7. I was 7:30 by the time a bus came. And I'd been standing there with wet feet inside my boots. I could have walked home more quickly, but I thought it might be slippy on the pavements because of the snow. There wasn't that much snow though. The buses could possibly have bucked up, in my opinion.

Friday: Was the last day of the week, and the first day I'd been paid since December. And it was Light Night. And frankly, I think in the matter of festivals that are completely made up, I think Nottingham sort of wins. There was definitely a lot more stuff on than last year. The first bit was slightly spoiled by a man sat near me shouting a bunch of racist stuff to do with St George's Day, but eventually I moved away. There was the big wheel, as usual. Also a robot roaming the streets, people on stilts, jugglers doing David-Bowie-in-Labyrinth tricks with glass balls, roaming story tellers. The castle grounds were open for free and all lit up, they had a hot air balloon they kept lighting so it lit up, and a dragon made of LED lights mounted to a bicycle roaming round the place. And then there was a Nottingham goddess parade through the streets, with an accompaniment of young rhythm dancers who did a performance in the open space by Marks and Spencer’s. It was pretty great, even if I did look for where people were getting glow sticks from all night and never found out. I found one in the street on the way back home, though. That was fair enough. And it was good. I got home, shivered while waiting for the heating to come on, and watched NCIS.


Today Adam and Joe were on doing their Valentine's Day show, and Adam was quite lovely towards his wife Sarah. I didn’t know his wife was called Sarah. His love CAME WITH A MESSAGE THOUGH. He and Joe didn't declare their love to each other, but probably they do that off the air. And then I wandered around town trying to get stuff done before Redemption. Massive queues in Thornton’s and various places. Valentine's Day. It gets all over the place.

Casualty without Toby is not as good as Casualty with Toby. It's a huge shame.
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Tonight's It Takes Two )

I would tell you how my job-hunting/acquiring today went, but to be honest it doesn't have a happy ending. So never mind.

I would like to talk about how much I love Nottingham, briefly, though. This is a post I often think about making. Dude. I will happily admit that our castle is a little bit boxy, but when you see it from the bridge over the canal on the way back from Sainsbury's, on the first night of the winter you've been caught out coming home in the dark, it's quite a sight. Also the view of the stars from my courtyard on a cold, clear night. It is a really beautiful city, Nottingham, and I do love living here. Everything's all connected, as well. That Stravinsky concert I may have briefly mentioned the other night? The tickets were meant to be £25-£30, but because I'm now a member of the Broadway cinema, I got a special offer which meant I got a ticket for the same price as a cinema ticket. It's coming up on Fairy Lights Outside season, which is a season I very much love, and it makes the expanding hours of darkness sort of brilliant. And I just love it, and the area I live in, and the town, and pretty much everything. There's a bar in town that's serves a teapot of shots, or used to. I love that as well. And I just think it's a really great city. Rah.

Another thing that pleases me: The House Bunny, which I saw recently and liked - the main character is Anna Faris, who I was sure was famous for something. She was Charlie in Heroes! Possibly she was slightly more well-known for being in the Scary Movie films. But dude!
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I love Gok's Fashion Fix. I love it so much. If I had any money at all, I would totally have a try at clothes. Even customising.

Things that are or were happening:

  • I went to the Nottingham Riverside Festival last weekend. I mentioned to some people that I'd been by a riverside, and never really explained it. It was lovely, the weather was good, the river is beautiful, I never realised it was so pretty down there. There was music and street theatre and burgers from vans, and the only bad thing was that I kept getting there late, and didn't have much money to spend, and spent probably too much on arts and crafts. I didn't stay for the fireworks, because I didn't want to get home too late, but I enjoyed it anyway.


  • HOWEVER - one band I quite wanted to see, but missed because I got there TOO LATE, was Sarah Savoy and the Francadians. I got there just as who I assume was Sarah Savoy was selling CDs after the show, and I didn't have the money anyway and wouldn't have spent £12 if I did, and especially not on a band I hadn't heard. But since then I have failed to find anywhere, on the entire internet, that sells her CD. Even her own site. I have fallen quite in love with that first song that plays on her/their Myspace page. But nowhere sells it. All I can think is that...I'm going to have to go to Paris. Possibly.


  • On the way down to the Riverside Festival, I stumbled on an arts and crafts market, where one man was selling watch pieces for £2 each. It turns out that the insides of watches are the most beautiful things ever. I bought two. It made me feel a bit Sylar-ish. But they are quite lovely.


  • Work has been mad. I'm back at the psychogeriatric ward, which is mental health for older people, and for two weeks two of the doctors were off on holiday together, because they are married, and this week the SHOs were finishing/changing over, so we had to get all their typing done before they left so they could sign it. Which didn't so much happen. Hmm.


  • Then yesterday I had to go home early because of period pains. And today I went in late because of the same. Which was fun.


  • Now I am hot, and I don't know if it's because of the weather or because my body temperature has risen slightly. Hmph.


  • Probably no-one cares about Heroes anymore except for me, but a thing I didn't know: BBC2 are planning to air Season 3 as close to the USA airdates as possible, to counter the attraction of downloading. Which is quite nice, even if it does make me want to download a bit more. But it'll be on BBC iPlayer as well, which I find a lot easier to use than most streaming sites. So that's quite pleasing, in many ways.


  • The Summer Sundae is on in Leicester this weekend. Adam and Joe are going to be there. And Roisin Murphy. I can get to Leicester with some ease, it's only over there. However, I'm probably not going to go. A) I have no money, and b) I have quite a bit of stuff I need to do over the weekend. Sadface.


  • I recommend this week's Adam and Joe podcast though (here). This week they're doing songs for the new James Bond film, and there's a bit in one of them about wishing Roger Moore would come back. The actual songs start at about 17:50, the whole Song Wars section starts at about 12:54.


  • I saw Hellboy 2: The Golden Army. Ha ha.

Work

Jun. 10th, 2008 09:50 pm
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So, I got sent back from that job. Which I've been meaning to post about all day, but never got around to it. Apparently they told the agency I "wasn't as enthusiastic as they were hoping for/thought I could have been". Which is probably true, but I don't know how enthusiastic they expect me to be in a job that is essentially typing out letters then going to get another tape and typing out more letters, in a job where the people I was actually working under only spoke to me or were in the same room as me once or twice the whole time I was there. Some ranting )

Anyway. The agency asked me some questions about whether I was okay to work and was fit to work, and I said yes, and they have something else for me on Thursday. And I was thinking, actually, that I wasn't going to get a chance to go into town to look at/get some fairly one-off seeming things until next Saturday, since I'm going back to my parents' this weekend for Father's Day, so it's actually worked out sort of well. I shouldn't really be paying out for stuff so much, but if they'd sent me back next week I'd have just bought a new £60 bus pass, so that has probably made up for something.

I also managed to get out into the courtyard and tidy up a bit. It turns out the random Yellow Pages nobody had picked up were where some wasps had gone to die, and that we had some very stubborn moss growing on the ground outside, but it generally looks a bit cleaner I think. I'd like to finally try and get the plants outside tomorrow. And get some new ones at some point. The Bougainvillea I was looking at in Wilkinsons isn't there at the moment. Woe.

Nottingham seemed, while I was out, to have been hit with massive power outages today. I was in Fopp and suddenly all the lights and music went down, and I assume the security alarms and tills. Then when I called the Citycard phoneline, they'd had a big power outage as well, and couldn't do anything I was asking for on the computers, till tomorrow. Electricity company must be having problems. Also, normally I hate the charity/petition people who hang around in Nottingham town centre while people are shopping. One once followed me down the street as I was on my way to a film to get me to sign my name on his and give my address. However, the Phoenix Children Foundation outdid themselves today by having a real live pony in the streets with them. A tiny pony, wandering around with a charity jacket on. Which was nice for a bit of a change.

Things

Mar. 15th, 2008 04:45 pm
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Today I failed to get up. But I did manage to get down to the local charity shop to pick up a brooch I asked them to put aside for me. It only cost a pound and is the most beautiful ugly thing I have ever seen. It is blue with moons and stars on it. I'm planning to wear it to Orbital. Also I saw someone from my old job at the council, and explained that I work with ex-criminals now. She agreed that this was probably better than what we were doing at the council before.

There are two solicitors' offices in Nottingham whose telephone numbers end in 666. You'd think they'd want to get away from those connotations. There's also an insurance place called "K.R. Phakey and Partners". Probably they do high-level business type insurance, but if you'd run into someone else's car you wouldn't want to give "K.R. Phakey" as your insurance place, would you?

The job for the rest of the day is to tidy the flat, which is such a tip you wouldn't believe it. First job is really to tidy up my recycling, otherwise known as the mess. If an ambassador from a colony of insects that live there comes out to negotiate terms, it could take a while.
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Town takes longer than it really feels like it should.

I've been quite busy this week. Mostly I think I just shouldn't get involved in fandoms that have fic written for them. That way only leads to madness, and no sleep. Though it turns out coffee helps with that.

The job is going pretty well. I'm working for an NHS Mental Health clinic, and it literally is just answering phones and transferring people, and typing up letters. And dealing with people in reception. Sometimes it gets a bit hectic when all those things happen at once - and they keep trusting me to come in a bit early and unlock all the gates and fire exits (fools). And sometimes people call up and are crying, but mostly it's all easy enough to cope with, if you know what to do. We only get a half an hour for lunch, which is annoying, but the area's quite nice and my work when I'm in there is mostly to be near the phone. And the people there are really nice, and friendly. Apparently the temp who was there before me, on Monday, came in the morning and then walked out at lunchtime, so mostly they think I'm great for still being there. There is a fire exit right next to the toilet though, so frankly I think they're asking for it. But I have no intention of escaping. I've only got the job for another three weeks though, which sucks a bit.

Otherwise I have mostly been learning that my "independent" life doesn't involve a) cleaning, b) posting on LJ, or c) sleeping. The bathroom quite powerfully needs a clean at this point. That might be this evening's job. And there was an issue on Thursday when K texted me to ask a 'big favour' - could I put her up for a month in November. Now, most of you haven't seen my flat because I can't work a digital camera (or at least keep it supplied with batteries), but it is essentially a room. It's a fairly big room, but a room nonetheless. And I don't have guest bed, she would be on the sofa, which is uncomfortable for me, and she's taller. For four weeks. While she was assumedly working on a project she's trying to set up here, and I was probably trying to keep out of her way. Mostly I flailed a bit, asked for more time. Then on Friday we talked about it, I explained that I thought it would be a bad idea for 4 weeks, though 1 or 2 would be fine, but that she could stay for 4 if she really wanted to and needed to. Because it is going to be important to her project, and she and J did it for me. Which she seemed happy with. Nothing's really set in stone at this point though, so we'll have to wait and see how it turns out.

This Wednesday I have to pay my rent, and it'll be the last month I have to pay rent for this flat. It's sort of freeing and nerve-wracking at the same time. I don't think I'll leave the flat any time soon, if I don't have to. I quite love it, even if the heat is a bit variable. And I love Nottingham. Yesterday I discovered the joy of Pumpernickels, which is a sandwich bar with armchairs and tudor benches in the back. There's a bar in town that does a teapot of shots, and the Ted Baker has a spiral staircase. Probably lots of cities have things like that. I quite like this one.

Other things:

  • I'm a bit in love with the [livejournal.com profile] the_sc_files. OH GOD, GABRIEL. OH GOD.


  • I'm watching myself for Heroes spoilers, because people have started to watch it. But I'm planning to watch it myself on BBC2, as a kind of catch-up. But BBC2, WHAT IS THE POINT OF REPEATING IT REALLY LATE AT NIGHT ON WORKNIGHTS?


  • I'm thinking of swapping out a bunch of my icons, but also thinking about not renewing my paid account when the time comes.


  • The Simpsons Movie, which I saw on Friday with K and J, is very very good. I laughed quite embarassingly loudly. And we had doughnuts. That was win.


  • I'm still mostly in love with Draco Malfoy.


  • Some other things, probably.
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