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I am playing Yakuza 7, I love Yakuza 7. I'm not really used to the storytelling of the Yakuza series, so I feel like I've been punched in the heart and my head is spinning, and the same is true for the main character. Also they do that slightly annoying thing in the game that they do in a lot of open-world games, where they make the main story really dynamic and urgent a lot of the time, but also put a lot of side activities in the open world. So it's exciting and makes the story compelling, and I have no complaints about the story, but can also be frustrating trying to find a believable time to mess about with less urgent things outside the main story. But I'm still very much enjoying it, story and side activities. I need trash, and I had trash and got rid of it, and now a request has come in asking me to deliver trash to someone, and despite painstakingly searching a lot of rubbish bins, I'm not finding very much trash.

My mum has struggled to see with one eye for the past few months - something to do with cataracts and previous laser eye surgery, I think? - but after getting vaccinated she finally went to the doctor's to have it looked at, and she had more laser surgery on Monday and now can see again. Which is nice.

Women's History Month got a little bit depressing in between reactions to the Meghan and Harry interview, some disturbing violence at some women's protests, and the Sarah Everard case. And now apparently the stories just keep on coming! Women's lives matter.

I'm playing Yakuza 7 most of the time, I barely exist on the internet until after midnight. Also I sort of applied for a job this week - my mum saw a Facebook post from a friend of hers about admin staff needed at a care home down the street from us. I registered an interest and the woman called me then sent me a job description at my request. But there weren't many details in the original post, and I guess I assumed maybe it would be casual because she was talking about it on Facebook - but she ended up describing it as a very 'full-on', full-time post where you basically do all the office work, to replace a woman who'd been there for years and was now retiring. So I thought maybe the job wasn't for me, and didn't end up applying. Still, it was interesting.
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Bad Girl's Guide series by Cameron Tuttle

This is sort of a recommendation as much as anything, but the Bad Girl's Guide series is one I really enjoyed when I was younger. I'm honestly not sure how easy they are to find anymore, but there seem to be some listings on Amazon at least. They're not books to take seriously, but they were books that were genuinely, a little flippantly, about not pleasing anyone - not just 'how to get what you are supposed to want' or 'how to be sexily naughty', but genuinely just fun little books. Subjects covered include 'how to leave tire tracks in a car', 'how to repel (not just attract) men', and 'ways of getting off the hook'. To be honest, I still have my copies and haven't read them in years (besides getting them out just now), so they might be super-annoying now, but I remember really enjoying them about 10 years ago.

Happy International Women's Day, everyone, we are 50% of the human race, and we deserve 50% of the days, and 50% of the month's, not just one!
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It's PS5 week, and I'm - less excited? I don't know. Still happy it's happening, but also remembering that I'll have to go through some 'decontamination' of the thing when I get it back from the shop, and also clearing out (and cleaning) some of the drawers-top where I keep all my consoles - since the PS5 is apparently massive, and also has a tiny disc drive, so - I was planning to keep my PS4 for PS4 games, but I just don't know that I can tetris it. So also considering all the work that will go into it. Having to hook up my PSVR to a new device, having to remember what my PSN username and password are. Also I'm mostly looking forward to it to play games on, obviously, and Cyberpunk 2077 has been delayed, so the only one left I was really excited for is Assassin's Creed: Valhalla, which is made by Ubisoft, who...have been very disappointing lately.

And specifically, with Valhalla...they apparently went through a long period of the 'culture' or management of the company not wanting any lead female characters (and commiting sexual harassment!). So they announced - before this came out - that you would always have a choice, a wonderful choice, about whether you wanted to play as a good man or a scum woman. Brilliant. No limitations to storytelling or character definition there. But the thing is, people still noticed they were mostly putting the male 'choice' on the box art of the games, and in all the marketing, and most of the merchandise. But they've come up with a solution to that! In the new game, you can choose to be a man or a woman, if you're boring, or you can let the magic force in the game decide for you, and switch between a man and woman throughout the game. Apparently - spoilers - this means barely switching at all, and sheds a lot of light on the story and mystery in the game, and the magic...but mostly it just feels like a way for Ubisoft to pretend they don't hate women, but still put the male character in all the adverts, because they are both canon! And I don't feel like I have the energy for their bullshit. So that has tempered my excitement for the game a bit. I will probably just play as the female character. Fuck them. Mostly I am interested in the horses. And to see if my home town is in the game. It's in the area - but did it exist yet? Mysteries.

(Spoiler: I have just googled it, it didn't. Maybe there will be a hill).
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I got my redundancy letter yesterday, and it turns out on top of the redundancy payment my parents predicted, I'm getting paid for 20 working days notice, so another four weeks pay on top of that. Plus what I earned through furlough this month until I was made redundant. So I'm actually not too bad off for money, and genuinely contemplating not even jobsearching until spring when hopefully the country's in a better spot and it's hopefully less of a risk. I don't know, though. I think I'm going to call Citizen's Advice tomorrow and see what my options are, as someone unemployed who doesn't actually want to go to a workplace any time soon.

It's a week until the clocks go back, and everything gets darker. I'm still trying to rearrange my sleeping schedule, so we'll see how that goes. It just feels like nothing's really going to happen until at least Christmas. All I'm looking forward to at the moment is an announcement of a new Sims expansion on Tuesday, and even that's reserved after the Star Wars bullshit they were pushing last time. I'm looking forward to the PS5 as well, but that's over a month away. The American election will be over by then. I'll have had to pick up another prescription. No point pinning any joy on that right now.

It still blows my mind that 'bitch' is so widespread these days. I kind of get it, I mean it's a fun word to say, satisfying. But it literally means dog, if you call a woman a bitch you are literally calling her an animal, subhuman. And it's still so accepted. You can call a man a bitch of course, but the insult there is that you're calling him a woman, which I guess is to a man what being an animal is to a human. Still not exactly positive for women. I still say bitch occasionally, but pretty much only for comedy reasons. I've really tried to cut down on it in my language in general.
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Me and a Gun by Tori Amos

(tw for rape, reference to murder)


Tori Amos wrote this about the time she was raped. It's one of the few songs - or works in general - I've ever heard referencing that experience. It's a hard listen, but I think a significant one.
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The Laugh of the Medusa by Helene Cixous

I read The Laugh of the Medusa in university, as part of the Theory part of my English course, and it honestly changed my life. It's a very short read, but so concise, and powerful. I think everyone should read it, but especially women, just in case it has something in it for you. Here it is in full, although it was originally written in French and I think that's a translation of a revised version, so I don't know if it's the text I read in university. But it reads the same.

And particularly this passage:

"To write. An act which will not only [...]; it will tear her away from the superegoized structure in which she has always occupied the place reserved for the guilty (guilty of everything, guilty at every turn: for having desires, for not having any; for being frigid, for being "too hot"; for not being both at once; for being too motherly and not enough; for having children and for not having any; for nursing and for not nursing ... )"

Made me rethink everything I thought about women and sexism and the way people thought about me, and the way I thought about myself. It is an amazing essay.
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There is a really nice project going on right now called Reclaim Her Name, which is reissuing seminal or best-selling novels written by women who had to use male pen-names, putting the female authors' actual names on the books. A very nice project for any time of year.
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“If women allow themselves to be consoled for their culturally determined lack of access to the modes of intellectual debate by the invocation of hypothetical great goddesses, they are simply flattering themselves into submission (a technique often used on them by men). All the mythic versions of women, from the myth of the redeeming purity of the virgin to that of the healing, reconciliatory mother, are consolatory nonsenses; and consolatory nonsense seems to me a fair definition of myth, anyway. Mother goddesses are just as silly a notion as father gods. If a revival of the myths gives women emotional satisfaction, it does so at the price of obscuring the real conditions of life. This is why they were invented in the first place.”

-Angela Carter, The Sadeian Woman, 1978


For some reason I remembered or heard the above quote as 'the best way to keep a woman down is to tell her she's a goddess', which must have been a summary I guess. I don't entirely agree with all of the above quote now - although I'm an atheist who doesn't actually believe in gods of any kind - but it still represents some problems that I have with a lot of ways women are talked about. It's also my entire problem with 'magical girl' characters, especially when they're one of the few, or the only, female characters in a story. Women are human. Writing about women as humans is okay, and accurate. You can write about ordinary women, struggling with things. That will also be interesting, if you make it as interesting as it is in real life. And probably mean a lot more to a lot of women.
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Today I would like to talk about Romantic poetry. The Romantic poets are generally known as William Wordsworth, Lord Byron, John Keats, Percey Shelley. So who do you think was the best-selling poet of the time? It was in fact a woman called Felicia Hemans, who apparently regularly outsold Byron, and was extremely popular in both Britain and America, and managed to support herself and her children with her poetry when her husband died. And hardly anyone knows about her now - I did an English degree, and only learned about her in passing, and I think that was from one discussion about how women of the time were often forgotten about no matter how successful they were. We certainly never looked at any of her poetry. Essentially, lots of people didn't give a shit about the male Romantic poets in their lifetime, but later on when people (men) were creating syllabuses for English literature courses in universities, they looked back at the period and tried to pick out who were the most important and influential poets, the most worth studying, and they decided it was the men. But rest assured, I have books of Felicia Hemans' poetry on my wishlist to buy someday. Maybe I'll hate it. But she did exist. And did better in her time than most of the male poets.
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Little Red Cap
by Carol Ann Duffy

At childhood's end, the houses petered out
into playing fields, the factory, allotments
kept, like mistresses, by kneeling married men,
the silent railway line, the hermit's caravan,
till you came at last to the edge of the woods.
It was there that I first clapped eyes on the wolf.

He stood in a clearing, reading his verse out loud
in his wolfy drawl, a paperback in his hairy paw,
red wine staining his bearded jaw. What big ears
he had! What big eyes he had! What teeth!
In the interval, I made quite sure he spotted me,
sweet sixteen, never been, babe, waif, and bought me a drink,

my first. You might ask why. Here's why. Poetry.
The wolf, I knew, would lead me deep into the woods,
away from home, to a dark tangled thorny place
lit by the eyes of owls. I crawled in his wake,
my stockings ripped to shreds, scraps of red from my blazer
snagged on twig and branch, murder clues. I lost both shoes

but got there, wolf's lair, better beware. Lesson one that
night,
breath of the wolf in my ear, was the love poem.
I clung till dawn to his thrashing fur, for
what little girl doesn't dearly love a wolf?
Then I slid from between his heavy matted paws
and went in search of a living bird - white dove -

which flew, straight, from my hands to his open mouth.
One bite, dead. How nice, breakfast in bed, he said,
licking his chops. As soon as he slept, I crept to the back
of the lair, where a whole wall was crimson, gold, aglow with
books.
Words, words were truly alive on the tongue, in the head,
warm, beating, frantic, winged; music and blood.

But then I was young - and it took ten years
in the woods to tell that a mushroom
stoppers the mouth of a buried corpse, that birds
are the uttered thought of trees, that a greying wolf
howls the same old song at the moon, year in, year out,
season after season, same rhyme, same reason. I took an axe

to a willow to see how it wept. I took an axe to a salmon
to see how it leapt. I took an axe to the wolf
as he slept, one chop, scrotum to throat, and saw
the glistening, virgin white of my grandmother's bones.
I filled his old belly with stones. I stitched him up.
Out of the forest I come with my flowers, singing, all alone.

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This is probably the first poem I ever loved.

It's women's month. My plan is to post something every day, but it might not be much, I don't want to write essays every day. And it might be a bit basic, and it might be white, because that's largely what I've been exposed to, but it is things I love and want to share. I had a plan for myself to watch a bunch of female-centric films and shows and to read books by women, but I think now a lot of it will still be playing Ghost of Tsushima. Which stars a man and is probably mostly made by men, but has some really nice female characters in it. I'm still going to make an effort to do the other stuff though.
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So, it turns out there is a women's month. Apparently all of March is Women's History Month. I feel like I never heard that, and everything woman-based that was put on around then I just thought was leading up to International Women's Day. I'm still planning to have women's month in August though, because I'm looking forward to it now. And it will be women's month, not women's history month, because I feel like the present is an okay thing to celebrate with women.

My dad is annoyed at the number of packages I've ordered lately, but what he doesn't know is that I've already ordered many, many more.
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Sunless Sea is a really good game, but it's very frustrating. It's set up so most of the time you'll die and have to start again, just having learned something new. But that also means you have to go through the same early game setup over, and over, again, pretending to be surprised by all the new revelations, and hoping you get the same lucky breaks as you did before, knowing how long it will be till you're set up enough to actually see something new again. As a result, I spent a lot of yesterday playing with a captain called 'Shithead'. Shithead was probably my most successful captain, and I was a little bit worried I was going to win the game with her. But then she died to a random wandering boss monster I couldn't defeat or get away from. So I get to start again. With Isobel. I'm hoping she will do just as well.

I'm so desperate for them to put horses in the Sims I'm ready to go back to Red Dead Redemption and ride those horses. Even though I know what a pain it is to play that game. Do they put the instructions in a handy menu screen or sheet of paper in the game box? No they do not. You just have to try to remember how to make your horse stop, or aim a gun. Currently they're speculating on the Sims forums that we'll get a romantic Paris-themed pack next, despite really very little evidence. If EA thought just not releasing any information about what new content was upcoming for the Sims would stop people speculating and then being disappointed, I think they have made a misstep.

I can't remember if I said we were being called back to work on 1st July previously in this journal, but I was incorrect - my manager actually said 'the beginning of July'. And hasn't given any further update on exactly when this is. Next week? The week after? I'm going to text him and hope for a response.

I've just realised women don't have a month. People talking about Pride month got me thinking about it. We only have a day. That doesn't seem like much for an entire half of the world's population. Maybe I will have a women's history month. Maybe in August.
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Since Tuesday night, my computer hasn't complained once about the CPU fan not working.

I'm feeling pretty stressed at the moment, and I don't know what I can do about it. Not looking forward to next week, when I'll be starting to the week off with my parents and nephews coming home. My manager came to me today to tell me that both morning receptionists will be off for the next two weeks, and let me know that if I wanted to come in early on any mornings, that would be really helpful. I was sort of like "umm...ummm..." - a little surprised he even asked me. Then I later told him that next week at least, I didn't think I could do anything, and as I tried to explain he told me I was worrying too much and he only asked me so I didn't get annoyed he hadn't even asked me, to give me a chance to do some extra shifts if I wanted to. ??? I don't think I'll be doing any extra hours.

Also, I tried to talk to him to let him know that he didn't need to speak to the CEO about the sick pay form, because I found out she already emailed me last week, and he said he knew about that, he thought he was copied into it. Given that that email more or less spelled out that I was entitled to sick pay and would probably get some from the company, that was a little confusing? Especially since he was still saying that he couldn't make head nor tail of the form? I think I'm going to have to try to have a talk with him about exactly what his professional opinion on my sick pay is. I have no clue what people are talking about in the company anymore. I suspect no-one does.

I spent some of last week learning about Etta Lemon, one of the founders of the RSPB and a major figure in the Women's Anti-Suffrage movement - which I didn't even know was a thing. It was weird to read about, but in a way it makes me feel better about the fact that women still argue about women/feminism today, and feminists still argue today. It's not that we were united before, and now we've become divided. It was always like this. You've just got to hope the most helpful things win out, I guess.

Also today I was reading about the fact that The Ring series was heavily inspired by the Japanese Okiku folk tale - which led me to probably my favourite set of stories ever. Can't honestly tell if the text by each image is a good translation of the traditional story, a bad translation of the traditional story, or the website owner taking creative license. NB: You have to click on each card and go to their page to get the full effect.

After many times watching this video of a pregnant stray dog being taken in and she and her puppies cared for and raised by multiple people, my favourite fic idea of the moment is "people looking after a pregnant stray dog together" fic. Sadly not a lot of people are writing stray dog fic.
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Things that happened to me this week:

  • I want to talk about the Stafford trip, I really do. But so many things happened on it it's hard to know where to start. Quite a few things, and also a trigger warning for suicide )


  • Well that was a lot of stuff, can I remember anything else that happened to me this week?


  • My parents are away for the weekend and I have the house to myself. This means I'm looking after the dog and am on 'picking up poo' duty, but besides that I'm really enjoying it. And the dog is pretty okay really.


  • My sister has another dog. My ON told us that last week, as soon as we got back from Stafford. It's a female dog they're looking after for someone who's been sent to prison, as a 'favour', and she's not fixed, and the other dog they have is a boy who isn't fixed, and our dog is also a boy who isn't fixed, and who we expect my sister to look after sometimes when my parents are on holiday and I have to work, so presumably she will have lots and lots more dogs very soon.


  • I can't remember if I said this, but the other week I was talking to my boss about car parking among other things, and I brought up the concept of penalising people who openly broke the car park rules, again. And my boss told me that we could do that, but it would be 'just as bad' as giving people car park spaces just because we like them. Which I don't agree with. But I guess that's his take on it, and on me really, so I've stopped caring about trying to make the car park any better.


  • The cleaner who fancies me also told me the other day that even though he loved superhero films and was excited for Avengers: Endgame, he hadn't gone to see Captain Marvel recently because "it's a she". And he only likes men with superpowers, because he's afraid of women with superpowers, because they might beat him up. He then doubled down on that opinion, because "with great power comes great responsibility". And he didn't say anything else, so I guess that means women just can't handle responsibility. But it's okay, because he told me that I can handle responsibility. We (I) then tried to decide if he'd be okay with a female Batman-like character, who didn't have any superpowers, just was super-smart and super-rich. And he said it'd be okay if a woman was super-rich. I might have missed the part where he said whether it'd be okay for a woman to be super-smart. Then he ended up by saying he would take me to the movies, or I could take him to the movies, anytime. Which was great.


  • They're going to have to have another referendum where they just say "When You Said You Wanted To Leave The European Union, What Exactly Did You Mean?".


  • I'm still just thinking about all Far Cry 5, all the time. I'm sorry. I'm trying to spare you that. It's been a year since the game was released. It's been literally a year, because it was released on my birthday, which meant there was suddenly new fic on AO3 for the Far Cry 5 Birthday Bash on my birthday, which was lovely. I don't know if I'll ever get over Far Cry 5. I can't think of a way for my favourite characters/pairing to happily be together, so I probably won't.


  • Borderlands 3 finally got announced though, and looks wicked, so I'm also slightly thinking about Handsome Jack as well.


  • I feel like I might start replaying Red Dead Redemption 2, just to get all the horses and Shire Horses again.


  • It's less than three weeks to Easter, and I really didn't realise it was so soon. It'll be nice to have the days off though.


  • I think that's everything but it probably isn't. I went to Pizza Hut on my birthday with my parents. It was lovely.


  • Oh there's a Rambo film coming out this autumn, I take back everything I previously said about cinema at the moment.
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E3 began today. Only EA's conference, but still. They're usually the boring one, because all they show is sports games and shooters. I was genuinely excited, because I thought they might show some new The Sims stuff - even though there's a new pack out in two weeks that they just announced, so it wasn't likely. They didn't, but even so I thought it was a solid okay, which bodes well for the rest of the show. Tomorrow is Microsoft, where they will probably announce some non-Xbox games, and Bethesda. So true E3 will be happening. The Bethesda showing will be on at 2am and is apparently a 2-hour conference this year. I am excite.

OTHER THINGS I MUSTN'T FORGET:

  • It's Father's Day on 19th June.

  • It's my mother's birthday a week later on 26th June.

  • They're both impossible to buy for, so that will probably go well.

Also, The Pretenders are playing in Leeds in August. I love the Pretenders. And Culture Club is playing in Leeds in November. I love Culture Club. Also there are two operas on this autumn with Opera North that I've been wanting to see for a long time. And apparently Rich Hall is just doing a constant tour around England at the moment. I have no-one to go to things with, but I might go to these things anyway. Also the open-air concert they have in my home town regularly is happening again in a few weeks. Another thing to go to.

A few weeks ago I went on a little shopping spree in Marks and Spencer's, and I bought a miniature rose bush in a pot. It's lovely, but now I basically have an extra thing to look after that I don't really know how to look after. I have to keep it well-watered without drowning it, and in a well-lit place that's out of direct sunlight. The soil looks incredibly dry every time I look at it, and I can't tell if I'm just worrying too much or the heat that's happening at the moment is drying it out a lot. Be safe, rose.

I don't necessarily agree with reducing the sentence for rape, or certain rapes, but everything Germaine Greer says still feels like she's incredibly concerned for the plight of women, and wants to make things genuinely, measurably better for women, and I still love her, no matter how messy or unpalatable the things she says are.

Coronation Street: about fucking time, basically. My favourite part was when David didn't even get to Not Tell Sarah about what happened to him. Just Gail got to Not Tell her. On the other hand, Emmerdale is being amazing. Emma Atkins forever.
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I hate every aspect of discourse that isn't "accepting that you aren't in control of everything, and don't know everything". I saw a conversation happening on twitter in response to some new twat that's around - I think it was Patterson Jones or something - and someone pulled out the quote "Chaos is the eternal feminine", and was saying no, the eternal feminine is creative, the eternal feminine is life-giving, and something else that makes us sound like magical fairies. Instead of 1) femininity and masculinity are made up, they are literally what we talk about when we talk about gender as a social construct, and 2) chaos is what twats see when the talk about women and equality, because it is that idea of men letting go of control, or the idea of control they have, and reassure themselves of by trying to control other people. Accepting that other experiences are valid, even if you'll never have them or really understand them, is a big part of fighting sexism, and I would argue you can associate that a little more with women than with men, because women are taught so often to co-operate rather than compete - I think women are more likely to accept another person's difference from them, and to be aware that whatever plans they have for a situation might not come off just because you never know how other people are going to react, and what they're going to want to do. It's the fact that twats - and twats in more than just sexism - see this as 'chaos' and are afraid of it that is the problem. And I genuinely think that to deny that is to misunderstand the problem.

And I hate that everything is on the level of children nowadays. So many progressive issues seem to only be going forwards because "what will the children think?", and children are important and lovely, and progressive issues should absolutely move forward, but...adults are the point of the human race. They are the plan of our DNA, and the ultimate form of us. It's not bad to consider them too, or work to make things better for them, or...to consider adult issues, in a complex way, that is accepting of the fact that we all have flaws, we will always have flaws, it's only how far that should go that should need to be discussed. I followed a teacher recently on Twitter, and she was very interested in representation in children's books - which is important, absoulutely - but every question seemed to come back to 'what about children, how will children react to this, what are we teaching children'? And...you can discuss these subjects in terms of adults. Ideally, you should be, since that's literally what society is mostly made up of, or the effective part of society right now. I know it's difficult with the internet, and not knowing what kids are seeing or have access to, that you wouldn't know they had access to or want them to see. But. Adults should be the point. In socialism and social theory. Almost always. I know that a lot of problems start in childhood, with what we're taught. But adulthood is where they end. And where we can actually confront those issues and think about them.

And I hate that entertainment is all on the level of children nowadays, I can't believe everything is Disney, it genuinely took me a while to realise that all the Disney films (obviously), Marvel films and Star Wars films are all Disney at the moment. Someone was talking about the new Star Wars film at Christmas and how some people had issues with it, on one of the podcasts I watch, and someone just replied mildly with "It's for kids, though. Star Wars is for kids." As a reason why people shouldn't criticise it or expect too much from it. When the films are great and everyone loves them, it's great, they're for everyone, but when they're bad, you know, it's just a kid's film. That's a fucking shame, since most of the films that are popular and are the most seen at the moment are all kid's films. We don't really have so many big films for adults anymore, apparently. And everyone's just saying "yeah well, the Marvel films won't really get into [that subject] too deeply, because Disney won't have it". And ffffffhhf. That is the level of the mirror that is currently being held up to life at the moment. I know there are other films than Marvel and Star Wars out at the moment, I know that, but nothing's really taking off like Die Hard at the moment, is it? And I know that kids are where the money is, and I know that films that can appeal to all ages are always going to be more popular than very mature films, just because they have a wider audience and kids aren't super-critical. But at the moment it seems like that's all there is, like that's the big stuff we're all looking forward to. And I don't understand the obsession with Disney films in adults in America, and I don't understant the obsession with YA literature, and I don't understand the way people defend it as great and that it should be the most popular in the world. Like...if you like that stuff, fine, but - the reason why Young Adult literature is called Young Adult is because it is sub-adult. It is written for people a little too young for proper adult books. That is literally what it means. And even if it touches on very serious subjects and themes, it's never going to go into them with the same exploration and depth that an adult book would, because it is by definition written to be shallower than an adult book. That is basically the definition of the type of writing. That's why it exists. It will never be on the level of an adult book because it is Young Adult. We should have things for adults too. Adults are still growing. An adult can look at a subject much more freely and objectively than a child ever could, and should be encouraged to do so. That's the definition of a mature mind, and our media should reflect that. And I know there are very worthy, serious films and books out there, and incredibly incredibly gruesome horror films out there, that's not what I'm talking about. There should be films that are fun for adults that can casually and without shying away acknowledge adult topics, and look at them, and ask questions about them. We should have those. They should be big news.

Learning to love and value yourself is an important part of progressivism. Learning how to get over yourself is another important part.

And I hate Tony Stark, and hope he dies within the first few seconds of Infinity Wars and isn't spoken of again.

This has been my hate post.
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  • Sometimes I am unhappy, and then I think about what good mothers alligators are, and how very protected baby alligators are when their mum is around, and then I feel much better.


  • Dear suffragettes: Your daughter's daughters adore you.
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I've just seen a 'Girl Power Fashion' segment on the Lorraine show, to celebrate the anniversary of British women getting the vote. At no point did they say you don't have to wear high heels, and feel precarious all the time, or wear make-up, since your actual face is fine, or follow fashion if you don't want to. It was about slogan t-shirts.

Also, yesterday on This Morning they interviewed a man who genuinely believed he'd been visited by aliens throughout his life, and lost his virginity to one of them, and had fathered numerous alien children. So maybe it isn't just the weird 'feminism vs' bits, and they really are just turning into Sky News. Taking advantage of a man's probable mental illness for a bit though is a little too much.
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I love Vera. Beautiful Vera. She would probably get nominated for Most Beautiful Woman in the Slashies, but she's always on so early in the year. She should know when awards season is.

I do find it really weird that people still associate racism with the beginning of the Suffragette movement because of Susan B. Anthony, when she was only involved in the American suffrage movement as far as I'm aware, and there were many other suffrage movements all over the world. I have no doubt other suffragettes were racist, and that if the American suffrage movement was early enough it probably inspired others, but it still seems really weird to talk about that one like it was the only one, like it is feminism.

I can't believe they're considering letting Quentin Tarantino make a Star Trek film, or any film ever again, when he basically admitted to knowing Harvey Weinstein was raping women, and did nothing about it. That did happen, didn't it? Did I imagine it?

Jumanji was quite fun - I loved the massive, massive product placement Sony did with their own games at the beginning - and I hope that the new meme on Tumblr is that whenever you're ready to fight someone, "Oooh baby I love your way" starts playing.
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Dear women,

You're not the worst. You're the best.
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